My attempts to answer this week’s question began with researching how play affects people’s lives. My initial search yielded thousands of websites mostly devoted to early childhood development. In children, play is an important component to social and emotional development. It allows kids to practice communication by experimenting with different roles and different scenarios. (Isenberg & Jalongo, 2006). It provides a means for kids to express their feelings by removing them from reality into a safe environment. When I was in law enforcement, the most difficult situations I had to deal with were crimes against children. It was especially difficult when we had to interview these kids in order to determine the events they experienced. Most often, the interviews were done using role playing as a means for the kids to explain what happened. This allowed them to remove themselves from the trauma they just experienced and let them transfer the experiences to a doll or toy. They acted out the events as though they were happening to the toy instead of themselves. This typically was done with a counselor or child psychologist in a safe, friendly atmosphere where the kids could act out the events without fear. It was amazing to see how this form of play allowed a child to act out a horrific event knowing the negative consequences were eliminated. Many of these kids also received counseling following the events to help them understand and cope. During these counseling sessions, kids used play to control emotions and to make sense of the situations they experienced. It allowed them to cope by acting out their feelings. It was a way for them to conquer their fears. This is equally important for any child. In fact, the United Nations High Commission for Human rights places such a high value on play that it has declared it a right of every child. The American Academy of Pediatrics declares that play is essential to the cognitive, physical, social, and emotional well-being of a child. (Ginsburg, 2006). It’s no wonder play is a common activity in elementary schools.
When I think about how play helps me embrace change, my thoughts immediately turn to music, cooking, and travel. All of these require thought, experimentation, and reward. Playing guitar or banging away on a djembe is a way to let daily stresses disappear. When I find myself stuck in a never-ending routine, I force myself to stop for a music break to break the cycle. It taps into the creative parts of my brain, which often leads to creative approaches to the rest of my life. Attempting to create a gourmet meal is a way to experiment without fully knowing the outcome. If it fails, it doesn’t matter. No harm, no foul (and possibly no fowl). I can laugh at my failures and moan with delight at the successes. Travel immerses me in unfamiliar cultures where people don’t know me and probably don’t want to. It forces me to play by their rules in a way that is honoring and respectful to the people I meet. When I get it right, it typically results in long conversations where I learn more about the culture than I could ever learn from a travel guide. Travelling to new locations forces me to change the way I interact with people which broadens my perspectives when I return home. It encourages me to learn more about my students and their experiences. This creates an atmosphere where kids feel safe to share their ideas. The biggest factor for embracing play is that it prevents me from becoming stagnant. As our text has repeatedly stated, we are in a world that is constantly changing. If I don’t embrace it, I’m going to be left in the dust.
Resources:
Ginsburg, K. R. (2006). The importance of play in promoting healthy child development and maintaining strong parent-child bonds. Pedriatics, 119(1), 182-191. Retrieved from http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/119/1/182.full
Thomas, D., & Brown, J. (2011). A new culture of learning: Cultivating the imagination for a world of constant change. (1st ed.). CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform.
Isenberg, J. P., & Jalongo, M. R. (2006). Creative thinking and arts-based learning preschool through fourth grade. (2006 ed., pp. 53-55). Pearson Education Inc. Retrieved from http://www.education.com/reference/article/importance-play–social-emotional/